"I BELIEVE PETS PROVIDE THE MOST UNCONDITIONAL LOVE WE WILL EVER
EXPERIENCE ON EARTH" - Madonna, Bee Yourself Counselling
Should I be this upset about my pet dying?
I provide grief counselling specifically for pet owners. Pet owners experience what is known as “disenfranchised grief,” i.e. grief that is not recognised or validated by society.
Giving yourself permission to grieve for your pet-friend is an important first step. Many pet owners think they "should not" feel so sad or miss their pet-friend so deeply. So why do we grieve their loss so deeply?
I believe friends, confidantes, soul mates and best friends come in all shapes, sizes and forms, including the form of a pet. It makes perfect sense you will be heartbroken when your best friend/soul mate/confidante is no longer with you. Many people tell me they loved their pet more than any person on earth. It makes sense that losing this type of pure, soulful, connection will be incredibly painful.
I have also been personally impacted by grief when losing my own pets so I truly "get it." I believe pets are pieces of heaven. They bring us love and laughter in ways nothing else can. Their cute, funny ways, and unconditional love bring us joy and peace in a stressful, performance-oriented world.
My pet is sick and I'm really struggling
Having an unwell pet, whether it is short or long-term, can be heart-wrenching, stressful, confusing and lonely. If you are anything like me it's impossible to focus on anything else until you have a diagnosis and treatment plan (if treatment is a viable option).
Your pet may be undergoing extensive treatment for an ongoing illness, having surgery, or require ongoing vet visits. These situations take their toll, mentally, physically and emotionally.
I am available for counselling regarding these issues and anything else related to your pet's health care where you may need emotional and psychological support. It can be incredibly helpful having someone listen to your concerns, fears, doubts and uncertainties at these times.
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