PET OWNERS GRIEF COUNSELLING

You may be reading this thinking something like...

"I would feel so stupid going to counselling because my pet died."

"What would people think if I went to counselling for something like that?"

"I don't want to waste money on myself when I should be able to get over it myself."

I created this service because so many people need it.  The clients who come to me loved and love their pet more than words could ever say.  I'm here for you.  We all need support at different times, and for various reasons, and the death of your best friend and confidante (your pet) is an incredibly valid reason. 

I believe friends, confidantes, soul mates and best friends come in all shapes, sizes and forms, including the form of a pet. It makes perfect sense you will be heartbroken when your best friend is no longer with you. 

I provide grief counselling specifically for pet owners. Pet owners experience what is known as “disenfranchised grief,” i.e. grief that is not recognised or validated by society.

If you need someone who truly understands, on a personal and professional level, what it’s like to grieve for your pet, please reach out to Madonna at Bee Yourself Counselling to make a confidential counselling appointment. 

The word "Euthanasia" is Greek for "good death."

However, many pet owners do not feel they have done something "good" when having to euthanise their pet.

Having to make a decision to end the life of your best friend can be one of the most difficult choices you will ever have to make.  It is real head vs. heart stuff, isn't it?   

I provide pre and post-counselling for this heartbreaking time.

Please note for pre-euthanasia counselling I cannot offer medical advice or suggestions as I am a Counsellor, not a Veterinarian.  Your Vet is the best person to give sound  advice regarding what is best for your pet medically.

  What I can provide is a safe space for you to explore your fears, doubts, anxieties and grief.  Having emotional and psychological support during this stage can be really helpful. 

Most people who come to me for counselling when regarding euthanasia struggle with guilt.  This makes perfect sense.  You loved and will always love your pet not just for the unconditional love and joy they gave you every day, but you no doubt took on the role of provider and protector for them.  When you have the role of protector, like a mother or father role, making the choice to end your pet's life seems anything but protective. 

Counselling can help you unravel the opposing thoughts and feelings you will naturally battle with.  I will create a safe space for you to explore these feelings and thoughts.  

People, including myself, spend so much money on their pets when they are alive.  We don't blink twice about spoiling them with their favourite things, or thinking ahead about what toy or treat to buy them next (and rightly so!)  Don't forget you matter too.